How To Avoid The Dreaded Friend Zone. Page 1 of 2. One of the most overused terms when it comes down to dating is . I'm going to share a story with you that got me out of the friend zone permanently.
When I was in my 2. I was always putting women into the friend zone.
These women who were great, cool and sexy — but they weren't perfect for me. I was this guy who was constantly running around, trying to find the most perfect woman that I could. I thought she existed. I knew she had to.
I was living in Manhattan, and I was having a blast. I'd constantly meet great women, fool around with them a little bit but then think to myself, “Nah, they're not perfect. They're not exactly what I want.” And I'd throw them in the friend zone.
And after doing this for years, I had a database of amazing women that I was “friends” with. When you do certain things to people, you tend to get it back yourself.
Call it karma or the Golden Rule — it exists! So one day, I met the most amazing looking woman in the entire world.
When she was walking toward me, she was like a vision. I can remember the day vividly. I was in Riverside Park.
I had my wiffle ball bat — I was a big wiffle ball player in my 2. New York City — and my dog as well. The minute I saw her, I immediately went into fantasy zone.
I thought she was the most perfect woman in the entire world. I'd never seen a woman so beautiful. I approached her, but when I was talking to her, I was nervous. I wasn't this cocky, confident guy. I was this really nervous, watered- down version of myself.
I didn't want to screw up. So I remember we talked for a little bit, and then finally, I looked at her, and I said, “Well, you know, our dogs seem to like each other. Maybe we should hang out for our dogs’ sake.”She looked at me with this strange kind of look, kind of cocked her head to the side, almost the same way a dog would, and she said, “Sure. Why not?” So we exchanged phone numbers, and I called her up a couple of days later. We met in the park, and we took a long walk and the dogs played, and I talked, and I didn't make any moves on her at all. When she smiled at me, I kind of looked down, because I didn't know what she was thinking. I was in my head so much.
I was wondering, “Does she like me? Is she attracted to me?
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Does that smile mean that she's attracted to me? Should I hold her hand?
Should I touch her shoulder? Should I go in for the kiss?” After all these years of throwing women into the friend zone and looking for the “perfect woman,” here I was standing in front of her, and I didn't even know what to do! I was ridiculously tongue- tied. We hung for, like, three hours.
We watched the sunset in the park. I mean, everything was perfect, and at the end, she looked at me — and I remember this day like it was yesterday — gazed right into my eyes and said, “I had fun.” So I looked back at her and said, “Yeah, me too.” And I walked away. And then I stopped, and said, “Hey, we've got to do this again some time.” I called her a few days later and asked her out. So we met like friends. I made no moves on her.
I was so nervous I didn't know what to do. I was in my head in every way, shape and form. Is inaction what puts you in the friend zone?